Listen without rushing to fix things, ask what would help, and offer one...
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Listen without rushing to fix things, ask what would help, and offer one practical step, like sitting together while they make a call. Say, “I’m here, and we can talk again tomorrow.” Set kind boundaries, too. Support can take more than one conversation.